Monday, June 2, 2008

Things That Girls Can Do, To Make Guys Attracted to Them

So, this blog post was touched off by a 17 Magazine article about ways that girls should act and such to make guys attracted to them.

So, I guess I will attempt to make a list of things that girls can do to make guys attracted to them, or interested in them, or something like that. Of course, this list is going to be just for me, but I think that a lot of what I’m going to say can apply to many different guys.

So, the article talked about confidence, and how to look confident when talking to guys and such. And I agree with that. I think that for both guys and girls, being confident about yourself, about how you look, about how you are acting is one of those things that are attractive. Everyone likes attention as well, so the girl starting flirting or talking to the guy first is of course something that is attractive. And that is confidence too; because usually guys are supposed to approach girls, but if the girl shows the confidence to go over to the attractive guy they see they’ll break boundaries and look extra confident and sure of themselves that way.

Another thing that guys appreciate is body contact. The article also said this. But, the article talked about touching his hand and stuff. I think that body contact really depends on how it is done. Sure, hugging is one thing, but a lot of the time, hugging is just a greeting or a farewell. But subtle things like taking his hand or sitting near him. Of course, the stereotype of the guy who is too oblivious to subtly is sometimes true. Stuff like that doesn’t always work, so sometimes you have to resort to more drastic measures like…

Walking around naked. Enough said.

But really, guys do like girls showing off. And this does go with the confidence thing. But, it is something that girls can do to get noticed. Look good, show off what you have. Not necessarily in a slutty manner, but just by making yourself look good, and know how to look good. That type of stuff is important to guys. We like how girls look, and if you want a guy to approach you, you’ll probably have to look good first. This doesn’t mean that you have to spend four hours in the bathroom everyday sculpting your hair and putting make up on, but you should know how to make yourself look good, and that will help you out.

So, I think I’m repeating myself here. The point mostly is that confidence in whatever you do, works. Flirt however you want, but do it well and with confidence and you’ll have a better chance to get the guy. There isn’t any magic perfume to wear, or shoes to dance in. You have just like who and what you are and go out there and go after the guys you want just as much as they have to go after you.

4 comments:

April said...

I hope you're joking about the walking around naked part.

At what point does confidence become cockiness and when does it lose its attractiveness?

Duncan said...

well, I mean, it depends on if the girl is nice looking or not... haha
No, it's a big generalization, and I think I'd lose a lot of respect I had for a girl who walked around in public naked. Now, a couple who live together or something, maybe walking around naked is cool and would actually be a good thing, but in public, no.

I think that confidence only goes too far when it gives off the feeling of cockiness. Of course you have to be somewhat cocky to begin with to approach someone you like to talk to them, to ask their number, whatever. But, that doesn't mean that it is bad. It can be bad and unattractive when a girl is basically waited on by guys she has wrapped around her little finger. But that is a different type of confidence though, really, and situation.

But yeah, so, I think that basically it would depend on the situation where a girl is being over confident. Which is a bad answer, but yeah.

Anonymous said...

Things that Girls can do to make guys attracted to them:
-Make us sandwiches
-Shut up
-Shake dat azz

Unknown said...

Amen, Daniel.